Week 1: ROOT

Becoming Grounded in Truth and Stillness

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Welcome to Your Season of Stillness

Week 1: ROOT - Becoming Grounded

"What you don't confront underground, will control you above ground."

This Week We're Not Rushing Ahead

We're learning to stop. To get honest. To get rooted.

Most men in Stillness carry hidden weight. We've been moving through life but haven't slowed down to face where we really are. That changes today.

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7-Day Journey

Structured daily modules that guide you through root recognition, foundation checking, and stillness practice.

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Interactive Workbook

Complete the interactive journaling experience directly in your browser — save progress, print, or download your reflections.

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Progress Tracking

Visual progress indicators and completion tracking to keep you motivated throughout the week.

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Community Support

Share insights and grow alongside other men on the same journey of transformation.

📖 How to use this course: Click on each day below to expand it. Work through one day at a time—don't rush ahead. Each day builds on the previous one. Complete the reflection questions in your workbook and use the journal spaces below for additional notes.

Day 1: Facing What's Underground

Section 1: Root Recognition

Welcome to Day 1

Today marks the beginning of your journey into stillness and self-discovery. Most men carry patterns, beliefs, and lies that operate beneath the surface—shaping decisions, relationships, and identity without our conscious awareness.

This week, we're not rushing to fix anything. We're simply learning to see what's there. To acknowledge what's been hidden. To face what we've been avoiding.

"What you don't confront underground, will control you above ground."

Understanding Root Recognition

Root recognition is the practice of identifying the foundational patterns and beliefs that shape our lives. Like roots beneath a tree, these patterns are often invisible but profoundly influential.

Many men operate from roots that were planted by:

  • Childhood experiences and family dynamics
  • Cultural expectations of masculinity
  • Past failures or rejections
  • Unspoken fears and insecurities
  • Lies we've believed about ourselves

These roots don't just influence our behavior—they often become our behavior. We react, decide, and live from these underground patterns without realizing it.

Today's Goal: Begin the process of bringing these hidden patterns into the light. Not to judge them, but to see them clearly.

🔍 Today's Reflection Questions

Use your workbook for main reflections. These digital spaces are for additional notes.

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Daily Stillness Practice

Find 10 minutes today to sit in silence and ask yourself:
"Where am I rooted right now?"

Don't try to fix anything. Don't force an answer. Just sit with the question and notice what surfaces.

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Share with the Community

What's one pattern or belief you've identified today that's been operating underground?

Head to the Community tab in Skool to share your insights and read what others are discovering.

Day 2: The Weight of Silence

Section 1: Root Recognition (Continued)

Welcome to Day 2

Yesterday, you began identifying the patterns and beliefs operating beneath the surface. Today, we go deeper into the weight of what remains unspoken.

Silence isn't always peace. Sometimes, silence is the heaviest burden we carry—the things we refuse to name, the truths we won't speak, the pain we keep buried.

"The things we don't say become the weight we carry."

Understanding the Weight of Silence

Many men have been taught that strength means silence. That real men don't talk about their struggles, their doubts, their fears. But this kind of silence doesn't make us strong—it makes us isolated.

The weight of silence manifests as:

  • Emotional distance in relationships
  • Chronic stress and physical tension
  • Anger that seems to come from nowhere
  • A sense of being misunderstood or alone
  • Difficulty connecting with others authentically

Today is about recognizing what you've been carrying in silence—not to force you to speak it all at once, but to acknowledge its weight.

Today's Goal: Identify what you've been carrying in silence and begin to understand its impact on your life.

🔍 Today's Reflection Questions

Use your workbook for main reflections. These digital spaces are for additional notes.

🎯 Bonus Task Available! After completing Day 2, you're ready for the Bonus Task: "Name the Lie." This powerful exercise will help you identify and confront the core lies you've been believing. Expand the Bonus Task section below when you're ready.
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Daily Stillness Practice

Find 10 minutes today to sit in silence and ask yourself:
"What am I afraid to say out loud?"

You don't have to say it yet. Just acknowledge it in the silence.

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Share with the Community

What's one truth you've been carrying in silence that you're ready to acknowledge?

Share in the Community tab. Your honesty might give someone else permission to be honest too.

🎁 Bonus Task: Name the Lie

Complete this after Day 2 or Day 3

Name the Lie

This bonus exercise is one of the most powerful tools in the Stillness Season. It's designed to help you identify the core lies you've been believing about yourself, your worth, and your identity.

⚠️ Important: This exercise requires honesty and courage. Take your time. There's no rush. Complete this when you feel ready—ideally after Day 2 or Day 3.

The Four-Step Process

Step 1: Identify the Lie

What lie have you been believing about yourself? This might be something like:

  • "I'm not enough"
  • "I have to earn love through performance"
  • "Showing emotion makes me weak"
  • "I'm too broken to be used by God"
  • "I have to have it all together"

Step 2: Trace Its Roots

Where did this lie come from? When did you first start believing it?

Step 3: Examine Its Impact

How has this lie shaped your life? Your decisions? Your relationships?

Step 4: Speak the Truth

What is the truth that counters this lie? What does God say about you?

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Completion Badge

Completing this bonus task earns you the "Truth Speaker" badge.

This badge represents your courage to name the lie and speak the truth.

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Share with the Community

If you feel comfortable, share the lie you identified and the truth that counters it. Your vulnerability might help someone else break free.

Day 3: Foundation Examination

Section 2: Foundation Check (Days 3-4)

Welcome to Day 3

You've identified underground patterns and acknowledged the weight of silence. Now it's time to examine the foundation your life is built on.

Every man builds his life on something—whether consciously or unconsciously. The question is: What are you building on?

"Everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock." - Matthew 7:24

Examining Your Foundation

Your foundation is what you return to in crisis, what you build your identity on, what you trust when everything else fails.

Many men unknowingly build their lives on:

  • Performance and achievement
  • Others' approval and validation
  • Control and self-sufficiency
  • Comfort and security
  • Image and reputation

These foundations may hold for a while, but they crumble under pressure. Today is about honestly assessing what you've been building on.

Today's Goal: Examine the foundation of your life and identify what needs to shift.

🔍 Today's Reflection Questions

Use your workbook for main reflections. These digital spaces are for additional notes.

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Daily Stillness Practice

Find 10 minutes today to sit in silence and ask yourself:
"What am I building my life on?"

Be honest. God already knows the answer—this is for your awareness.

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Share with the Community

What foundation have you been building on, and what do you want to shift toward?

Day 4: The Busy Escape

Section 2: Foundation Check (Continued)

Welcome to Day 4

Yesterday, you examined your foundation. Today, we confront one of the most common ways men avoid dealing with that foundation: busyness.

Busyness isn't just about having a full schedule. It's often a strategy—a way to avoid stillness, avoid reflection, avoid the uncomfortable truths that surface when we slow down.

"Busyness is not a badge of honor. It's often a shield against what we're afraid to face."

Understanding the Busy Escape

Many men stay busy because stillness feels dangerous. In the quiet, we might have to confront:

  • The state of our relationships
  • Our unprocessed pain and grief
  • The gap between who we are and who we want to be
  • Our need for God and others
  • The emptiness that activity has been covering

Busyness gives us a sense of purpose and productivity, but it can also keep us from the deeper work of transformation.

Today's Goal: Identify how busyness functions in your life and what it might be helping you avoid.

🔍 Today's Reflection Questions

Use your workbook for main reflections. These digital spaces are for additional notes.

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Daily Stillness Practice

Find 10 minutes today to sit in silence and ask yourself:
"What am I running from?"

Notice the urge to fill the silence. Resist it. Stay present.

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Share with the Community

How has busyness functioned as an escape in your life? What are you committing to slow down for?

Day 5: Entering Stillness

Section 3: Silence Practice (Days 5-6)

Welcome to Day 5

You've identified patterns, examined your foundation, and confronted busyness. Now comes the practice that ties it all together: entering stillness.

Stillness isn't emptiness. It's presence. It's the practice of being fully here, fully aware, fully open to God and truth.

"Be still, and know that I am God." - Psalm 46:10

The Practice of Stillness

Stillness is a discipline—a learned practice of quieting the noise (internal and external) and creating space to hear God, to know yourself, and to be known.

In stillness, we:

  • Stop performing and simply exist
  • Release control and trust God
  • Face what we've been avoiding
  • Receive clarity and peace
  • Reconnect with our true selves

Today is about intentionally practicing stillness—not as a one-time event, but as a way of life.

Today's Goal: Practice extended stillness and notice what surfaces.

🔍 Today's Reflection Questions

Complete these AFTER your stillness practice today.

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Extended Stillness Practice

Today, extend your stillness practice to 20 minutes.

Find a quiet place. Set a timer. Sit in silence. Don't pray, don't read, don't think—just be still and present. Notice what comes up without judging it.

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Share with the Community

What did you experience during your extended stillness practice? What surprised you?

Day 6: What Surfaces

Section 3: Silence Practice (Continued)

Welcome to Day 6

Yesterday, you practiced extended stillness. Today, we process what surfaced.

When we create space for stillness, things rise to the surface—emotions, memories, truths, convictions. Some of it is beautiful. Some of it is painful. All of it is important.

"The heart knows its own bitterness, and no stranger shares its joy." - Proverbs 14:10

Processing What Surfaces

Stillness isn't about suppressing what comes up—it's about acknowledging it, naming it, and bringing it before God.

What might surface in stillness:

  • Unprocessed grief or anger
  • Clarity about a decision or relationship
  • Conviction about something you need to address
  • Peace and reassurance from God
  • Awareness of your true desires and needs

Today is about honoring what surfaced and discerning what to do with it.

Today's Goal: Process what surfaced in stillness and discern next steps.

🔍 Today's Reflection Questions

Use your workbook for main reflections. These digital spaces are for additional notes.

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Daily Stillness Practice

Continue with 20 minutes of stillness today. Ask:
"What do You want me to see, God?"

Pay attention to what keeps coming back to your mind. That's often what needs attention.

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Share with the Community

What surfaced for you this week that you need to address? How are you planning to move forward?

Day 7: Root Revelation

Section 4: Integration & Next Steps

Welcome to Day 7

You've made it through the week. You've faced what's underground, examined your foundation, confronted busyness, and practiced stillness. Today is about integration—bringing it all together.

This isn't the end. It's the beginning of a new way of living—rooted in truth, grounded in stillness, and anchored in God.

"Blessed is the one who trusts in the LORD, whose confidence is in him. They will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream." - Jeremiah 17:7-8

Root Revelation: What Have You Discovered?

This week, you've uncovered patterns, lies, and foundations that have been shaping your life. You've also discovered what it means to be still and present.

Today is about naming your root revelation—the core insight or truth that emerged this week.

Today's Goal: Name your root revelation and commit to next steps.

🔍 Final Reflection Questions

These are the most important questions of the week. Take your time.

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Final Stillness Practice

Spend 20 minutes in stillness today. Bring your root revelation before God.
Ask: "What do You want me to do with this, Lord?"

Listen. Receive. Trust.

🎉 You've Completed Week 1!

Congratulations on completing the ROOT week of Stillness Season. This is just the beginning.

🏆 Week Completer

What's next?

  • Continue your daily stillness practice
  • Act on the concrete step you identified
  • Share your root revelation with a trusted friend or mentor
  • Prepare for Week 2 (coming soon)
Remember: Transformation doesn't happen in a week. It happens in the daily practice of returning to stillness, truth, and God. Keep going.
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Final Community Share

Share your root revelation and your commitment for the week ahead. Celebrate with the community!

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